Do’s and Don’ts in Dating

Do’s and Don’ts in Dating

Dating experts have shared their knowledge about the rules of dating. If you want to increase your chances of succeeding in dating, you ought to follow these rules, too.


• Relax and have fun. Dating is a wonderful experience only when you know how to have fun. Set activities that both of you enjoy so you relax and de-stress. But if you are too pressured to enjoy it, then you better stop dating.

• Prepare for the date. Groom yourself by taking a shower, keeping your breath fresh, and choosing an outfit that compliments your look and matches the venue. Don’t overdo sexy to avoid offending your date.

• Listen. During a date, you need to listen extra attentively and ask questions later. Don’t brag if you don’t want your date to be turned off.

• Be generous with your compliments. Focus on the good things about your date and point it out to him or her.

• Be positive. Your complaints will definitely not move your date forward.

• Be honest. If you think you won’t work, have the courage to tell your date about it instead of leaving him or her to hope that you will meet again.

• Be proactive. Take steps to find prospective dates. Learn how to smile, flirt and be friendly.

• Be creative. Don’t simply follow what other couples have been doing. There’s more to dating than just going to the movies. You can go bowling, horseback riding, or attend music festivals, before going to the movies where you can’t talk.

• Tell your friends that you are dating. Someone might help you out by playing matchmaker.

• Have manners. Try to be a gentleman. If you’re a woman, offer to pay for the date or half of it. Don’t forget to say thank you and please.



• Don’t be late. Doing so is like saying that you don’t respect your date’s time.

• Don’t be clingy. Don’t be desperate to call, text, or email the other person frequently if you don’t want to look like a turn-off.

• Don’t fall for people who are users. Don’t reveal too much about yourself. Don’t tell the other person how well-off you are. Discourage your date if he’s coming on too strong about getting intimate.

• Don’t lie. It’s understandable that you want to look good in front of your date, but don’t overdo it by lying about your education, income, and career.

• Don’t act too desperate. No matter how desperate you are to get married, don’t scare your date by talking about marriage and children on your first date.

• Don’t be too focused on getting a call or text from the other person. This is pathetic. You still need to live your life, instead of dropping everything just because you met a prospect that you really like.

• Don’t go to your date drunk or high. Being incoherent will immediately throw your chance to find a partner out the window.

• Don’t flirt with other people. Hitting on the chaperone friend or anyone else while you’re on a date will immediately cut your chances of getting another date.

• Don’t get intimate too quickly. Engaging in sex after one or two dates will likely take the fun part of getting to know each other in a dating relationship.

• Don’t reveal too much of yourself on a first date. Despite how close you’ve grown after your first date, don’t tell your date about your home number and address.…

Do You Want to Win Your Ex Back?

Do You Want to Win Your Ex Back

It’s done, you said some things, she said some things, you are both hurt and in the height of your emotions, the two of you ended your relationship. But then after a few hours, or maybe a few days, or a week or two, you realize how big of a mistake you have done. You realize how amazing that girl that you let go was and right then and there, you decided that you have to do everything you can to win her back. But what is the right way of winning an ex back? Is there a right way of winning an ex back? And if there is, what is it?

Before you do anything, stop using the word “win” in this situation. When you don’t get her back, you think that you lost because you did not try harder. So the tendency of some guys when that happens is to double their efforts to the point of overwhelming their exes which scares them away. Being a big baby about this situation will not help you get your ex back.

Even if she was the one who broke the relationship off in the first place, there is a pretty good chance that she was the only one who was unhappy with it. Trust me, you also did something which set her off. Maybe you were being unusually distant, you were inattentive to her or maybe she noticed your wandering eye while you were walking hand in hand in the park. Chances are, she has been noticing some symptoms on you and she had been thinking about it for some time already.

Before you come knocking on her door with a teddy bear and bunch of flowers, take a time to step back and re-evaluate the state that your relationship was in before the breakup was initiated. Do not only look at what her issues were, you also need to recognize and address your own issue as well and you also need to address the role that you played that helped sabotage your relationship. You also have to remember that it is not a contest that has to be won by anyone. Think of it as a process that you two has to go through to fix a conflict.

Here are some things that you have to work on if you really want to get back together.

Respond in a Different Way
When your girlfriend tells you something, you usually respond angrily. But you can actually use that as an opportunity to strike up a conversation to work a problem out. You also need to understand where she is coming from and why she mentioned that to you because chances are, it has been bothering her for a while now.

Remember that this is not a battle that you have to win and it will also not work out if you are just the only one trying hard to sort things out. Talk about it, listen and keep your emotion in check. If you will just focus your intentions on what you really want out of the situation and if you are willing to compromise and work to smooth things out, then you might be able to really make it work.…